Red Flags to Watch For
Warning signs that something isn't right.
Legend: 🔴 Major red flag | 🟡 Warning sign
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Asks for money (ANY amount)
Number one rule: never send money before meeting in person.
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Refuses video calls
Real people have no problem video chatting. This is THE biggest red flag.
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Too good to be true
Model-level looks + desperate for you = suspicious. Reverse image search!
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Moves too fast
Declarations of love within days? Be very skeptical.
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Sob stories early on
Setting up to ask for money later. Classic scammer move.
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Asks for "load" or phone credits
Very common Filipino scam. Load requests = red flag.
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Vague about job/life
Real people have details to share about their daily life.
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Pushes for WhatsApp/Telegram fast
Moving away from dating site moderation and records.
✅ Green Flags (Good Signs)
- ✓ Has a verifiable job/education
- ✓ Happy to video call anytime
- ✓ Consistent stories and details
- ✓ Never asks for money or "load"
- ✓ Introduces you to friends/family
- ✓ Takes things at a normal pace