✓ Do's
Show Respect to Her Family
Greet her parents properly, bring pasalubong (gifts), and show you value them.
Be Patient with LDR
Long-distance is part of the process. Consistent communication matters.
Learn Basic Tagalog/Bisaya
"Salamat" (thank you), "Mahal kita" (I love you) show real effort.
Pay for Dates
Traditional expectation, especially early on. It shows you can provide.
Dress Neatly
Filipinos appreciate well-groomed men, especially when meeting family.
Attend Church with Her
Even if not Catholic, offering to go shows respect for her faith.
✗ Don'ts
Don't Rush Physical Intimacy
Many Filipinas are conservative. Respect her boundaries.
Don't Ignore Tampo
If she goes quiet, don't ignore it. Show affection and ask what's wrong.
Don't Criticize Her in Public
Causing embarrassment = major relationship damage. Handle issues privately.
Don't Trash-Talk Her Country
Filipinos are proud. Criticism of the Philippines is taken personally.
Don't Be Cheap with Family
Generosity with her family is expected. Being stingy is a red flag.
Don't Send Money Before Meeting
Real Filipinas are embarrassed to ask. Early money requests = scam.
💡 Pro Tips
- • Bring pasalubong when visiting her parents (sweets, souvenirs, or small gifts)
- • Learn about her province — Bisayas vs Tagalog, regional differences matter
- • Video call regularly — LDR requires consistent effort
- • Be prepared for direct questions — "What are your intentions?" is normal